Wouldn’t anyone trade anything just to start over? I know I would.
Trash the saying that not everyone is given a chance to start over. BECAUSE EVERYONE DOES. I have learned overtime ( I learned hard, mind you!) that, the reason life is beautiful because as long as you are alive, there is always room for improvement. That you can always start over.
But ofcourse, you have to weigh the pros and cons first. Ask yourself questions.
- Why do I want to start over? – are you just bored with life? want to spice it up? is it a routine?
- How will it affect the people around me? – this one is relatively important because there will always be a someone who will get/be affected with the change whether it’s for the best of both parties or just yourself, think if it’ll be worth it.
- Are you doing this for yourself or for others? – again, is it for the best?
- Will you grow as a person if you start over?
Remember, that starting over means a chance to improve, motivate and grow as an individual. I am not encouraging you to do it again and again every time you screw up ( though, it wouldn’t be a bad thing either. It just proves your persistence in trying to improve yourself ^_~) but consider also those who will be affected by it.
It won’t be easy I tell you, but if your are determined and remain focused on your goal in achieving that change, YOU CAN! because at the end of the day, you wouldn’t like asking yourself the what ifs of life right?